The tendency of man is to judge our fellow human by their past. Remember judging anyone by their past is never a correct way to foresee the potential in such a person.
When you judge, you are indirectly telling yourself that you have no fault of yours. Learn to give people a chance for renewal. In every wrong attitude you see in others, there are good ones. Look beyond the wrong attitude and see how to bring the best out of such a person.
When we talk of element of change, you can be that change when you stop judging people by their negative past. When the past is gone, let it become a bye-gone. What belongs to the past should be left to the past. Sometimes, the people we judge by their past have already over their past and are living a glorious life with a renewed mindset.
Take a look around you, sometimes; you will discover that those who had the worst past are the one living the right kind of life today. What we should know is that we cannot be limited by our past even if that hurts. Our past should not be that which should limit us from striving to make our future a better one. When we keep dwelling in the past, we denied ourselves the full potential to actualize our future goal.
The potential to bring out the best in others is never to judge them by their past but rather to encourage them to achieve their future goals and aspiration which is the purpose to which we were created to achieve.
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